The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck - Mark Manson

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

By Mark Manson

  • Release Date: 2016-09-13
  • Genre: Self-Improvement
4.5 Score: 4.5 (From 10,137 Ratings)


#1 New York Times Bestseller

Over 10 million copies sold

In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.

For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected American society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.

Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.

There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.


  • An Amazing Book

    By milo12123
    This book really sunk into my soul. Its a lot to process. It hurts. However, it gives me new things, and perspectives to try into my own life.
  • I hate reading but…

    By terrywithT
    I barely read books but this was a good read , a lot of topics to keep in mind which will help you in everyday life
  • Positive Perspective of life and death

    By TZ Girl
    This book has truly given me a different insight of both life and death by appreciating both and realizing that one must have a full understanding of death in order to fully live with no guilt and minimal stress. This book also highlights the importance of challenges and being able to overcome those challenges without expecting others to help you.
  • The momentum..

    By John Bocook
    After the first third of the book, I really lost momentum in reading it. But up to that point I loved it.
  • Hilarious therefore intellectually stimulating

    By Jenna_Tolls
    Title sums it up.

    By Anfernee!
    This Book was nothing short of Amazing and immensely delivered. I’m as Excited to read the second book upon Hope! Mark Manson… Thank you, HVAB out !
  • Excellent!

    By BobbyK401
    Something in this for everyone!
  • Life changed

    By Sinibar
    Read it; listened to the words and let it change my life. It did. Now, I stand and reflect on the cliff, too.

    By Totisg8
    A must read!!!! Everyone should read this book at least once, some of us more than once!
  • Eye-opening

    By jdorris1906
    This book is a deep look into self. One day I hope you will read and go on a journey of self care.